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C'est La Vie




What’s the worth of utterly accepting life in all its’ pains and glories through complete surrender and having a full Dionystic attitude?

Does Nietzsche's ‘amor-fati’ justify the absence of regret and resentment? 

In the first place, how should I begin with this rambling? 

The answer perhaps, is through another question about regret and a pseudo-philosophical treatment of this.

Such is life – too easy to say, yet indescribable in many aspects. It’s just difficult to understand it, additionally, it’s difficult to limit life into something that just randomly happens.

We are thinkers and being such, we clamor for reasons behind everything. There SHOULD be a reason behind life and there must ABSOLUTELY BE A REASON for everything that’s happening. (without thinking we're just crazy to assume that there is a magnanimous ecclesiastical destiny that governs life)

Life is maybe a very simple concept but was (and is) subjected to multiple definitions. I am even wondering how I was able to defend my thesis regarding the affirmation of life. It’s too subjective and the very definition of it depends on the person perceiving it. Life isn’t special nor is it beautiful unless someone gives meaning and beauty to it.

Perspectives, a paper remains a paper as this mongol pencil is but a simple writing tool. It’s just one of the million pencils and papers all over the world. However, if I use this pencil to sketch on this blank parchment, the harmony creates a majestic form which we call art.(well, art in a way that I appreciate what I created despite of knowing it’s really not that good. The beauty I see depends on the story underlying that particular work.) 

We don’t call an art work, an essay, a short story or a poem as ‘pencil scribbling on a paper’. The dialectical relationship between these two things is what creates beauty. Aren’t we all in search of this? A paper and a pencil are useless things unless there is the unity between them. And what unites them? The dreams and imagination of the artist. It maybe a simple thought that I guess everyone knows but do we really see the deeper essence of this harmony? 

People have been busy with their personal matters that they tend to forget about the simple things that make life beautiful. (or at times, too busy talking about other people's lives and they keep on comparing their life with others coupled with this egotistic belief that their life is way better than others. BUT that's in another topic...)


It’s just tragic and sad to see people rushing around in circles, worrying about petty things- ignoring the paper and the pencil because of the belief that they can’t draw or write. Or maybe, just maybe, they find these simple and mundane things as unimportant. 


Call me a psycho but I am holding on to these simple, mundane and fleeting moments. 


For these are the things that made me think, 


these are the things that made me change,


and these are the memories that for me, matters the most.

I know that everyone can draw, and everyone can write but not everyone wants to dream
ut such is life.


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